Sunday, April 17, 2005, 10:38 PM
OPEN BLOG
Last week.two cases of "raped" blogs.My sister and my friend.Both whined and cussed bout it.My sis.She had seniors tagging at her blog.insulting her.calling her names.just cos she likes this so-called hot butch in her school.like hallo?gimme a break.And i thought nowadays,tweens were getting more and more mature.Hur.Guess not.
Now,back to my friend.She blogs bout the lurve of her life.Spills her guts out and pouring feelings.Ahh.Here comes the tickling part.The love of her life reads it!And then confronts her.She feels soo flustered.soo OMG.She wants to cancel her blog.Stop all blogging.Ask me to UNLINK her.*rolls up my eyes*Yes,it is quite awkward and embarrassing to find out that the person you were blogging about,read your blog without your knowledge.MAYBE.Subconsciously,you do want the person to read.To know how u actually feel.MAYBE only.She feels so invaded.So raped.That the love of her life knows it all.Her feelings.Her life.How's she's doing.She felt invaded.She tries sooo damn hard to try and move on in her life.But no.She can't.So what if she can't get over the love of her life?Its perfectly fine.Yeah.Sometimes,you don't wanna hang on anymore.But there's you can't seem to move on to.So you gotta have to spend time standing still before you can start moving forward.Hmmx.To me,cancelling a blog is just kicking a big fuss out of nothing.Making a mountain out of a molehole.But that is my friend's character.She thinks too much into things.
I believe when you blog,you should keep it in mind that it is fer ALL to see.And yeah.When you blog,I'm sure that are some things you gotta keep in mind.Certain topics are off limits.Certain feelings bout close ones & bitches are off limits too.Cos blogging ain't just purely virtual.It can convert into reality deep shit if you know what I mean.And puh-leeze.Not everything might be true.Cos blog can just be virtual reality.If you really feel bothered bout letting people read,then dammit.Lock it up with a key/password.Better still,don't even fucken blog.
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